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What Does Success Really Mean? | Tola Talks – Ep 350

What does success really mean? Is success about money, fame, status, and the freedom to say “F you” to the world? Or is it something deeper?

In this special Sunday edition of Tola Talks, I reflect on a conversation with a 23-year-old guy at the gym, another conversation with an older, wealthy man, and the very different ways they define success. This is also my 350th Tola Talks episode over 12 years—and it got me thinking about what really matters as we get older.

For me, success comes down to three things: Mind. Body. Spirit.

A clear and developed mind.
A strong and healthy body.
An evolved and loving spirit.

Money can make life easier. Fame can feel good. Status can open doors. But when you reach the end of your life, are those really the things you’ll wish you had more of?

I’ll share why I believe discipline, health, learning, kindness, presence, and doing the right thing are ultimately a better measure of success than the size of your bank account.

And for the younger people watching: you don’t get there overnight. You get there one workout, one decision, and one day at a time.

89 days left in the year. How many workouts are you going to get in?

My answer: 89.

Get your workout in. Stay present. Keep your mind sharp. Keep your body strong. Keep your spirit evolving. Have an awesome day everyone…and get your workout in! Peace – R

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Fixing America’s Broken Educational System on Tola Talks – Ep #227

In this episode, Rich Tola dives deep into the pressing issue of education in America, asserting that the system is fundamentally broken. He shares his personal experiences as a substitute teacher in inner-city schools, highlighting the challenges faced by both students and educators. Tola emphasizes the importance of five key elements for success: desire, discipline, consistency of effort, accountability, and sacrifice, arguing that these traits are often more critical than formal education itself. He critiques the current educational practices, particularly the promotion of students who have not mastered essential skills, and calls for a complete overhaul of the system to better serve all students.

Tola passionately discusses the need for a more tailored approach to education, suggesting that separating students based on their learning capabilities and providing vocational training could be beneficial. He also critiques standardized testing, arguing that it often fails to reflect a student’s true potential and can create unnecessary stress. Throughout the episode, Tola’s fervor for improving education shines through, as he advocates for a system that prioritizes genuine learning and accountability over mere progression through grades.

Watch now and discover: → Education is failing in America and needs urgent reform. → Success is driven by desire, discipline, and sacrifice, not just education. → Promoting students without mastering skills harms their future learning. → Standardized tests create stress and do not reflect true student abilities. → Vocational training could provide practical skills for students who struggle academically.

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Family Makes Perfect! on Tola Talks – Ep #223

In this conversation, Rich Tola discusses the importance of setting resolutions for the new year, focusing on health, fitness, and family. He shares his personal resolutions, emphasizes the significance of supportive family structures, and highlights the role of love in education. Tola also provides life lessons and insights on personal growth, encouraging listeners to embrace their uniqueness and strive for improvement.

Watch now and discover: → Start the year with clear resolutions and focus on health: eat better, sleep well, workout daily. → Family stability leads to happier homes and healthier lives. → Teaching requires love and support for effective learning. → Embrace failures as learning opportunities. → Personal growth involves being true to oneself, and always make sure to be kind, curious, and courageous in life.

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How to Play Volleyball & Coach’s Interview on Tola Talks – Ep #213

On today’s Tola Talks, Rich dives deep into the world of volleyball, discussing its history, skills, and the importance of commitment in the sport. Joined by expert coach Brad DiRupo, they explore various aspects of volleyball, including serving strategies, player positions, and the significance of teamwork and dedication.

The conversation also touches on injury prevention and conditioning, providing listeners with a comprehensive understanding of what it takes to excel in volleyball. DiRupo also discusses the critical roles of setters and liberos, emphasizing the importance of communication, teamwork, and player development. He shares insights on recruiting players for college, the significance of height in certain positions, and the year-round commitment required to excel in the sport. The discussion also touches on the positivity and support within teams, the dynamics of substitutions and rotations, and the growth of volleyball as a competitive sport.

Watch now and discover: → Volleyball began 130 years ago as a less stressful alternative to basketball. → Volleyball became an Olympic sport for both men and women in 1964. → Key skills in volleyball include serving, passing, setting, attacking, blocking, and digging. The setter is crucial, akin to a quarterback and arguably the most important position on the court. → Commitment from players, coaches, and parents is crucial for success. → Injury prevention, particularly for knees and ankles, is essential in volleyball.

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Consumer Doubt & Trust with Ed Winslow on Tola Talks #202

In this episode of Tola Talks, I engage in a lively conversation with my long time friend, Ed Winslow, founder and CEO of Proofstacking.ai. We discuss the importance of visibility in business and the need for self-awareness and personal growth. Ed shares his journey in real estate, the concept of proof stacking, and how storytelling can transform marketing efforts.

Our conversation also highlights the challenges and opportunities in today’s competitive landscape, emphasizing the significance of creating success stories to establish credibility and generate leads. In this engaging episode, Ed and I explore the significance of storytelling in marketing, the importance of overcoming consumer doubt, and the power of success stories in building trust. We discuss the concept of proof stacking and how micro stories can create a compelling narrative that resonates with audiences.

A must watch for all business owners and especially real estate brokers!

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Finish Strong + Savor Small Victories

Two more weeks until we wrap up this rate-hike laden, crypto market crashing, war torn Year of the Tiger, so it’s time we buckle in and finish strong everyone. That is to say, stay healthy and positive and focused in the final inning of 2022, and most importantly, stay committed to your fitness.

Another day, another workout is my motto. Because keeping your Temple, i.e., your physical body that’s harmonious with your mind and spirit, is paramount to keeping you primed to finish strong in everything you do.

And not to be forgotten are all those small victories you’ve achieved throughout the year, whatever the successes or positive outcomes earned – or perceived negative outcomes that will prove to be rewarding nonetheless. Be sure to acknowledge them and savor them and celebrate them for what they are: small victories in the war of life.

Happy Holidays everyone, may peace be with you.

PS – Click HERE to buy the best motivational stocking stuffer on the Planet – at least I think so – and get your workout in! Peace – R

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Top Stories of 2021 – Ep 6 – Tola Talks Texas

Today we’re talking about finishing the year strong as well as assessing your goals, successes and failures in 2021. Because it’s always best to acknowledge your small victories in the war when it comes to your personal, family, business and “Universe” lives. We also countdown the Top 10 Stories of the Year, plus my own Top 5 Highlights as well as my entertainment goals for 2022 including making the short film, All Mixed Up, plus a more lofty one…working with Noomi Rapace. She’s the six time award winning lead actress in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo trilogy (I highly recommend watching all three films on Crackle). Not to mention more talk about working out and drinking from the Fountain of Youth and of course, my predictions for where Robinhood’s seven cryptocurrencies are headed in the New Year. Stay safe and sound and perhaps even sober tonight everyone (like me)…and get your workout in! Peace – R