Rich discusses the implications of grade inflation and deflation, its impact on students’ future earnings, and the evolving standards in higher education. He shares personal experiences and insights on how grading practices influence motivation and college admissions. Plus, an interesting Quote of the Day from William Shakespeare.
Why Self-Confidence Is Key to Ending Our Dating Recession on Tola Talks – Ep #262
Rich discusses the latest global happiness report, the concept of a dating recession, and cultural etiquette abroad, emphasizing the importance of self-confidence, respectful behavior, and in-person interactions.
Watch now and discover: → Global happiness rankings and insights from the World Happiness Report → The rise of the dating recession and its societal implications → Cultural etiquette tips for international travelers → On this day in 1972, the Godfather premiered in New York City. → On this day in 2002, Halle Berry became the 1st Black Woman to win the Academy Award for Best Actress in Monster’s Ball.
Ode to My Mother on Tola Talks – Ep #252
Rich shares personal stories about his mother, historical milestones, and life lessons, blending heartfelt tribute with educational insights on innovation, history, and personal growth. Plus, a Happy Birthday shout-out to the Queen of the 90’s film and TV…Sharon Stone.
Watch now and discover: → Personal stories and tributes to Rich’s mother. → Historical milestones: invention of the telephone and the Dot-com boom. → Happy Birthday to Sharon Stone! → The importance of passion, pride, and resilience. → Rich’s poem, Ode to My Mother.
Going Bananas: Health Benefits and Risks plus Movie Review on Tola Talks – Ep #233
In today’s conversation, Rich Tola discusses various topics including the health benefits and risks of bananas, the concept of ‘house burping’ and the term ‘almond mom’, a movie review of Sam Raimi’s ‘Send Help’, and a fun challenge with tongue twisters. Rich shares personal insights and humorous anecdotes, making the conversation both informative and entertaining.
Watch now and discover: → Bananas are rich in essential nutrients and can help regulate blood pressure. → Bananas can help improve sleep quality due to tryptophan, while eating slightly green bananas is better for diabetics. → The term ‘almond mom’ refers to unhealthy dieting pressures on children. → Rich encourages a healthy lifestyle over unrealistic body expectations. → Rich reviews the new Sam Raimi horror comedy, ‘Send Help’.
Family Makes Perfect! on Tola Talks – Ep #223
In this conversation, Rich Tola discusses the importance of setting resolutions for the new year, focusing on health, fitness, and family. He shares his personal resolutions, emphasizes the significance of supportive family structures, and highlights the role of love in education. Tola also provides life lessons and insights on personal growth, encouraging listeners to embrace their uniqueness and strive for improvement.
Watch now and discover: → Start the year with clear resolutions and focus on health: eat better, sleep well, workout daily. → Family stability leads to happier homes and healthier lives. → Teaching requires love and support for effective learning. → Embrace failures as learning opportunities. → Personal growth involves being true to oneself, and always make sure to be kind, curious, and courageous in life.
Is Year-Round School Better for Everyone? on Tola Talks – Ep #220
In this episode of Tola Talks, Rich Tola reflects on the holiday season, shares a movie review of ‘The Housemaid’, and discusses the pros and cons of year-round schooling. He emphasizes the importance of continuous learning and the potential benefits of a year-round school system while also addressing the challenges it may present.
Watch now and discover: → Rich reflects on his holiday food hangover and weight goals, while celebrating his 30th livestream show. → Audience ratings for ‘The Housemaid’ were mixed, with a B grade from moviegoers. → Amanda Seyfried’s performance in ‘The Housemaid’ was highlighted as a standout, while Sydney Sweeney’s love scene is worth it for all her admiring fans – young and old. → Year-round schooling may be costlier, but could also reduce learning loss for students. → Rich believes that year-round schooling will lead to better learning outcomes and should be implemented, just like the 10% of schools nationwide that already subscribe to a year-round plan.
What is Christmas? on Tola Talks – Ep #219
In today’s Tola Talks, Rich Tola engages listeners with a discussion about the significance of Christmas, reflecting on personal memories and traditions while also addressing the importance of accountability in education. He shares insights on the history of Christmas celebrations, the evolution of traditions, and the impact of family on holiday experiences.
Watch now and discover: → Rich emphasizes the importance of accountability in schools (flashback to Ep #218) → The history of Christmas has evolved over centuries, while 88% of Americas celebrate it today. → Personal memories shape our understanding of Christmas. → Traditions vary greatly across cultures during Christmas. → The significance of family during the holiday season is paramount, while the spirit of Christmas can be revived and perpetuated through storytelling.
Merry Christmas everyone…have a safe a wonderful holiday! Peace – R
Should Students Wear Uniforms? Tola Talks – Ep #218
In today’s Tola Talks, Rich Tola discusses various topics including the significance of the winter solstice, celebrates the achievements of the Texas A&M volleyball team, and delves into the controversial subject of school uniforms. He presents both the pros and cons of implementing uniforms in public schools, sharing personal insights and experiences from his time as a teacher. The conversation concludes with reflections on the importance of discipline and the challenges of enforcing rules in educational settings.
Watch now and discover: → Celebrating achievements in sports fosters community spirit. → School uniforms can promote equality among students, while reducing peer pressure and bullying. → Uniforms can save time in the morning for students, while also creating a cost burden for families. → Uniforms may not effectively address issues of individuality. → Enforcement of rules is crucial for the success of uniform policies.
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Kindness, Domestic Violence & Forgiveness on Tola Talks – Ep #197
In yesterday’s Tola Talks, we discuss the themes of kindness, domestic violence, and self-forgiveness. The conversation begins with a reflection on kindness and its profound impact on our lives and DNA. As October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we delve into the complexities of domestic violence, its effects on individuals and families, and the importance of recognizing and addressing it. The discussion transitions into the theme of self-forgiveness, emphasizing the need to let go of blame and embrace accountability as a path to healing.
If you or anyone you know is a victim of Domestic Violence, please watch this show and share it with your friends! Peace – R
RIP to the sweetest Mom ever..mine!
As many of you know, I put my life on hold three years ago so I could return home to care for my ailing parents. Both were battling cancer that had unfortunately metastasized, while my Dad was the first to leave us.
To the sweetest and kindest and most beautiful woman in the world – at least to me she was – here’s a tribute to my biggest fan – my Mom:
Rose Mary DiStefano Tola (1941-2025) passed away peacefully after a long battle with cancer on Monday, May 25, 2025. Born on March 10, 1941, she was 84 years young when she passed. For those who knew Rosie, as she was known to her beloved family and friends, she was the sweetest and nicest and prettiest yet strongest gal from North Trenton, who first appeared on American Bandstand with Dick Clark live from Philadelphia in 1957. Born and raised in Trenton, NJ, and a graduate of Trenton Central High School, she worked as a licensed beautician for several years before marrying Francis “Richie” Tola, a legendary barber and baseball mentor who recently passed away in October. Rosie also retired after 20-years of service with the Department of Education for the State of New Jersey. She was a caring and supportive wife of 65 years, as well as a mother to three wonderful children and four loving grandchildren. She is survived by the following: her son and daughter-in-law, Sam and Pam Tola, her son Richard, her daughter and son-in-law, Karen and Patrick Tuffy, her grandchildren Matthew and Samantha Tola, and Riley and McGwire Tuffy, plus numerous nieces. She is predeceased by her brother, Benedetto “Benny” DiStefano, and sister, Philamena “Phyliss” Wilson. Per her wishes, there will be a private family service only. To everyone she was blessed to have met, Rosie was a compassionate and kind soul, and above else, a proud mother and grandmother, beautiful friend, aunt, co-worker, client, patron and forever baseball and soccer fan – until recently, when she fell in love with women’s basketball. For her 84 memorable years of life, Rose Mary DiStefano Tola was a beacon of light and a wonderful listener who will surely be missed.
And here’s a picture of us a few weeks before she passed. Love you Mom!!
