Today, I remember not just the heroes who fell in battle, but also the loved ones we lost. My mom passed away a year ago today, and it’s a bittersweet reminder of love and loss.
Memorial Day is a time for reflection and remembrance, dedicated to honoring the brave men and women who sacrificed their lives in service to our country. As we gather with family and friends to celebrate this important day, it’s crucial to understand its origins and significance. In addition to honoring our heroes, we’ll also explore why sleep is vital to our overall well-being.
Have a awesome Memorial Day everyone…and get your workout in! Peace – R
On today’s Tola Talks, I share insights on the Indianapolis Motor Speedway and the upcoming Indy 500, the origins of 12 iconic company names, plus I pay tribute to rock legend, Chris Cornell, exploring his impact on Grunge and Alternative Metal music as well as his struggles. This episode offers a mix of fascinating facts, personal reflections, and motivational takeaways.
Have a great Monday everyone…and get your workout in! Peace – R
Understanding the U.S. income tax system can be both enlightening and amusing. From its historical beginnings to the quirky laws that govern it, taxes are an integral part of our lives. Remember to respect the ABC’s of life: always work out, eat right, and be open to different opinions. Let’s make tax day a little less daunting by appreciating the facts behind it!
Comfort has become the highest value, but shouldn’t we balance comfort with respect for ourselves and others? I was taught that perception becomes reality, so let’s dress for success – real or imagined. Plus, a RIP shout-out to Hollywood icon, Chuck Norris, with a few Chuck jokes that’ll make you laugh, and some fun facts about the new Ryan Gosling film, Project Hail Mary, and whether American’s are morally right…or immoral.
In this conversation, Rich Tola discusses the concept of aging well despite genetic predispositions. He reflects on the legacy of Kobe Bryant, emphasizes the importance of joy and relationships in healthy aging, and shares insights on nutrition and mindset. Tola encourages listeners to take control of their health narratives and find joy in daily activities, while also addressing the common mindset of limitations.
Watch now and discover: → Aging well is possible even with bad genes. → Genetics influence only 25-30% of how we age. → You can actively rewrite your health story every day. → Quality relationships are crucial for healthy aging, as well as finding joy in daily life. → Mindset plays a significant role in overcoming challenges.
In this episode of Tola Talks, I reflect on the legacy of First Lady Rosalynn Carter (RIP) and the importance of caregiving, plus the historical significance of Abraham Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address (read by me). I also share some practical tips – and pet peeves – about proper gym etiquette, emphasizing respect and consideration for others in shared spaces.
Watch now and discover: → There are only four kinds of people in the world: caregivers. → Caregiving is a tough job, but it’s essential work. → Abraham Lincoln faced multiple failures before becoming president. → The Gettysburg Address is a pivotal moment in American history. → Proper gym etiquette enhances the experience for everyone, so treat it like an operating room, while your daily fitness program is important for overall well-being…so just do it!
As many of you know, I put my life on hold three years ago so I could return home to care for my ailing parents. Both were battling cancer that had unfortunately metastasized, while my Dad was the first to leave us.
To the sweetest and kindest and most beautiful woman in the world – at least to me she was – here’s a tribute to my biggest fan – my Mom:
Rose Mary DiStefano Tola (1941-2025) passed away peacefully after a long battle with cancer on Monday, May 25, 2025. Born on March 10, 1941, she was 84 years young when she passed. For those who knew Rosie, as she was known to her beloved family and friends, she was the sweetest and nicest and prettiest yet strongest gal from North Trenton, who first appeared on American Bandstand with Dick Clark live from Philadelphia in 1957. Born and raised in Trenton, NJ, and a graduate of Trenton Central High School, she worked as a licensed beautician for several years before marrying Francis “Richie” Tola, a legendary barber and baseball mentor who recently passed away in October. Rosie also retired after 20-years of service with the Department of Education for the State of New Jersey. She was a caring and supportive wife of 65 years, as well as a mother to three wonderful children and four loving grandchildren. She is survived by the following: her son and daughter-in-law, Sam and Pam Tola, her son Richard, her daughter and son-in-law, Karen and Patrick Tuffy, her grandchildren Matthew and Samantha Tola, and Riley and McGwire Tuffy, plus numerous nieces. She is predeceased by her brother, Benedetto “Benny” DiStefano, and sister, Philamena “Phyliss” Wilson. Per her wishes, there will be a private family service only. To everyone she was blessed to have met, Rosie was a compassionate and kind soul, and above else, a proud mother and grandmother, beautiful friend, aunt, co-worker, client, patron and forever baseball and soccer fan – until recently, when she fell in love with women’s basketball. For her 84 memorable years of life, Rose Mary DiStefano Tola was a beacon of light and a wonderful listener who will surely be missed.
And here’s a picture of us a few weeks before she passed. Love you Mom!!
For those who knew my father, he was a man like no one else. I guess you could say my own uniqueness, and passion, and desire to go my own way was just like my Dad’s. RIP to a local legend who was arguably the best barber in the world – and best hitting instructor! Below please find his obituary and Celebration of Life event this Sunday.
FRANCIS “RICHIE” TOLA (click HERE to visit the Obituary)
Francis “Richie” Tola (1938-2024) passed away peacefully after a long battle with cancer on Monday, October 28th. Born on July 7, 1938, he was 86 years young. For those who knew him, Richie was the greatest guy who had passion in everything he did. Born and raised in Trenton, NJ, he was a legendary barber for nearly 68 years beginning in 1957, one year after graduating from Trenton Central High School and serving in the National Guard. He was also a motivational mentor and hitting instructor to scores of kids and adolescents who ever played the game of baseball. He was revered for helping anyone and everyone who wanted it. The beloved “Richie the Barber” was also a terrific storyteller as well as an infinite source of knowledge, recounting true tales about the Mafia, baseball, Sicily (his home country), movies and anything medical related. As one longtime friend and customer tells it, “before there was Google, there was Richie.” He is survived by his wife, Rose Mary, son and daughter-in-law, Sam and Pam Tola, son Richard, daughter and son-in-law, Karen and Patrick Tuffy, four grandchildren, Matthew and Samantha Tola, and Riley and McGwire Tuffy, brother and sister-in-law, Ronald and Carolyn Tola, his four nieces, and pre-deceased sister and brother-in-law, Joan and Joseph Pallotti. Per his wishes, there will be no funeral services. There will, however, be a Celebration of Life held in his honor on November 10th from 4-6pm, in the main batting cage at Nottingham Little League. In remembrance of Richie’s life and love, the family requests any donations be made to “Nottingham Little League”, P.O. Box 2521, Hamilton, NJ 08690. Thank you for being his friend, patron or baseball player he influenced throughout his wonderful life.
Thanks for your enduring impact on the world Dad, and with love and light, I’ll see you on the other side. RIP – R
Today we’re talking about Rep. Marjorie Taylor Greene and mRNA vaccine technology contributor Dr. Robert Malone getting banned from Twitter plus the children’s book publisher, Heroes of Liberty, getting banned from Facebook; the new independent social media app GETTR embracing free speech with hosts like Joe Rogan and myself @richtola opening new accounts; more confusion plus more of the public’s money needed for more COVID testing; New Year resolutions for healthy living plus fitness tips that’ll keep you posture perfect and laser focused in your workouts; plus financial tips about investing and saving wisely for the future, with a special RIP shout-out to the legendary Betty White.
Today we’re talking about the 580,000+ homeless people in America, most of those individual males and the rest single moms with children. That’s way too many, and with the help of those of us who are not homeless – including my bodybuilding idol from 1979 and seven time Mr. Olympia champion, Arnold Schwarzenegger, we need to end this epidemic now. Plus a special RIP shout-out to Man’s World Gym owner and mentor from my childhood, Joe Dodd, as well as the legendary football coach turned world-class TV broadcaster, John Madden. Not to mention more weightlifting tips from my workout today, and of course, some inspiring talk about holding the line when it comes to your cryptocurrencies…like I’m doing, even as they plunge even further.
